Jamie Smoker and the Ember After team plan weddings, celebrations, and gatherings that feel entirely yours — handled with care from the first idea to the last dance.
“Every dream starts as something only you can see. My job is to build it into something everyone can walk into.”
Jamie's love of bringing people together started long before Ember After Events had a name — behind a bar, learning that the best nights happen when someone else is quietly making sure everything runs smoothly. That instinct carried her through a decade in luxury hotels and event sales, planning everything from intimate dinners to full-scale conferences, including catering Jennifer Lopez's 50th birthday celebration at Gloria Estefan's Star Island estate.
At the InterContinental Miami, she led a catering department to a first quarter that closed at 256% of goal, earning her the Greater Miami & The Beaches Hotel Association's Catering Manager of the Year award and an IHG nomination for Leader of the Year. Before that, at Ruth's Chris Steak House, she grew private dining and catering sales 70% year-over-year and planned the company's entire Florida sales conference on her own.
Today, Jamie is doing what she loves most on her own terms — raising her toddler in Brewster, New York, and building Ember After Events from the ground up, just her, a laptop, and a whole lot of heart. She knows firsthand what it feels like to pour everything into something and watch it become real, and that's exactly the care she brings to every event she plans. Every story begins with a spark — this one's hers.
From an A-list birthday on Star Island to weddings and galas across Westchester and the Hudson Valley — every event gets the same standard of care.
Before Ember After Events existed, Jamie was already doing this level of work — catering Jennifer Lopez's milestone birthday celebration at Gloria Estefan's Star Island estate. It's the same precision, discretion, and hospitality-first instinct now behind every Ember After event, regardless of guest list size.
Full-day celebrations built around your story, from first look to last dance.
Polished, on-schedule events for brands and organizations that can't afford surprises.
Birthdays, anniversaries, and once-in-a-lifetime moments worth doing right.
Intimate gatherings designed down to the last candle and place setting.
See the full portfolio — including the milestone celebration above — on the gallery page.
A straightforward path, no matter which package you choose.
A conversation about your vision, your guests, and your budget — free, no pressure.
A concept, mood board, and vendor shortlist built around what makes your event yours.
Contracts, timelines, and logistics managed so nothing falls through the cracks.
Jamie on-site running the day, so you can actually be a guest at your own event.
Every package can flex to fit your event. Prices reflect current 2026 rates for full-service event planning across Westchester, Manhattan, and Putnam Counties — final quotes depend on guest count, timeline, and vision.
You've planned it all yourself. We step in during the final month to make sure it runs without you lifting a finger.
You've got the big pieces — venue, date. We fill in the rest and manage everything from three months out.
From an empty date on the calendar to a finished celebration. We handle every decision alongside you, start to finish.
Planning something that doesn't fit a box? Bespoke packages are available for corporate events, milestone parties, and multi-day celebrations — let's talk.
“Jamie remembered things about our wedding we hadn't even thought to worry about. We just showed up and had the best night of our lives.”— A recent Ember After client
Tell us a little about what you're planning. Jamie replies personally within two business days.